Arousal in men: Signs that he wants you

Shortening the distance is a sure sign of a man's excitement

When asked what are the signs of arousal in a man, all girls immediately answer that it is an erection. However, how to know that a guy wants to make love, if he checks whether his organ is ready for "work and defense", it is not possible.

Signs of excitement in men:

  1. Nonverbal cues.
  2. Courtship.
  3. Human posture.
  4. Physical reactions.

Nonverbal cues

Feeling excited, a man tries to make direct contact

There are non-verbal body signals that can tell you if a man wants you with words. For example, if a guy is interested in you and wants to make love to you, he will subconsciously start copying your actions, this is manifested in repeating your movements and body positions. If a guy, on the contrary, starts playing "mirror" with you, it's a clear sign that he doesn't mind taking you to the bedroom.

During a conversation, an excited man will constantly reduce the distance between you and do this completely automatically. During communication, the distances between bodies will slowly but surely decrease. The next stage is direct contact - touch. This does not mean that a man begins to give up, allowing himself too much. The cooler your relationship, the less pronounced this stage will be. It can manifest itself in light contact with hands and feet. This is the body language that clearly tells you that a man wants you. Be aware of such accidents, which are usually not accidental.

Courtship

Excited man shows attention to woman

During communication, an excited man does not miss the opportunity to pay attention to the object of his desire. If he is sitting at the table, he fills his glass, serves a snack, and in the case of a warm relationship, tries to feed him from his own hand. The latter is a sure sign that the "client is ready", take it lightly, it won't go anywhere.

An excited man helps me sit down on a chair and get up from it. He gives you outerwear and helps you put it on. He will do all this not just out of politeness. Her masculine nature will tell her that this is another opportunity to connect and touch the object of her desire.

Human posture

If he sees a woman he is interested in, the guy automatically turns on the "macho" mode, straightens his back, contracts his stomach, thereby demonstrating all the charms of his harmonious and masculine figure. If a guy is sitting, he automatically spreads his legs, showing his crotch. Spreading the legs is the gesture of a confident male who has spotted a worthy female.

If you are facing each other, pay attention to the direction in which the toe of his shoe "looks". Turning towards you means that he is interested in you.

Physical reactions

Physiologically, the state of arousal is not only manifested in the erect penis. The man's breathing rate, voice, and gaze change, his pulse speeds up, and his blood pressure rises. If you see him adjusting his tie, which seems to strangle him, it might not be because he's hot, but because he's literally dying to have sex with you. At the same time, follow the man's voice and gaze. If you're excited, you won't be able to hide it behind a "mask".

Pay attention to the man's breathing. When he is excited, he cannot breathe evenly and calmly as in his normal state. His breathing changes.